RECONCILIATION

PETITION REQUEST TO

THE FIRST PRESIDENCY OF THE CHURCH OF

JESUS CHRIST

OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS

"Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me. " -Jesus Christ

   

 
 

 

Petition Home Page

 

Below are links to church history and personal stories of those who have experienced the pain that comes from endeavoring to change their sexual orientation in order to comply with church teachings and policy.

Personal stories, Rocky, Drew, Val & Ray

Gay & Lesbian Member Suicide List

We Can Change History For Gay LDS

Lifetime Celibacy or Excommunication Policy

The Etiology of Homosexuality from Authoritative Latter-day Saint Perspectives, 1879-2006

A Revised History of Homosexuality & Mormonism, 1840-1980

Chronology Of Mormon / LDS Involvement In Same-Sex Marriage Politics

Mormons for Marriage supports marriage equality for all, and stands in respectful opposition to California Proposition 8.

Mormon Politics & Member Opinion

ABC News- Gay Mormons Face Excommunication  

 

 

   

 

   

Foundation for Reconciliation

 

THE FOUNDATION FOR RECONCILIATION  

Media Release:  September 21, 2009

Media Contact:   Peter Danzig, 801-865-9029 

Foundation for Reconciliation/LDSapology.org requests a meeting with LDS General Authority Elder Bruce C. Hafen to discuss concerns about his recent comments at the 19th annual conference of Evergreen International. 

Elder Bruce C. Hafen, a member of the First Quorum of the Seventy, spoke at the 19th annual conference of Evergreen International, a group that helps Mormons "overcome homosexual behavior."  In his remarks Elder Hafen insisted that while homosexual orientation “may not” be “consciously chosen,” the notion that it can be “inborn and unalterable… will ultimately lead to discouragement, disappointment, and despair.”  

The Foundation for Reconciliation has sent a letter requesting a meeting with Elder Hafen to share with him the many personal stories that prove the exact opposite, that spiritual peace has been found in accepting that sexual orientation (in this life at least) is often unalterable particularly for those who begin with no attraction to the opposite sex. This is born out by a recent resolution from the American Psychological Association (APA) which indicates that there is no credible scientific evidence to indicate that sexual orientation change attempts are successful and that “some qualitative research suggests the potential for harm” if such therapies are implemented. 

“The idea that sexual orientation can be changed through therapy and faith is just as unfortunate as the now abandoned LDS teaching that Native American’s skin color would change if they followed the Gospel,” stated Cheryl Nunn, founder of LDSapology.org. 

She continued “We are concerned that Elder Hafen seems to have misconstrued the recent resolution of the APA as endorsing sexual orientation change efforts in some cases when in actuality the report suggested that ‘practitioners… assist clients through therapies that do not attempt to change sexual orientation.”  

“Reading Elder Hafen’s speech we feel confident that his intent is to help, and he gave a number of useful suggestions for remaining celibate and in full fellowship as a homosexual member of the LDS church. We hope in meeting with him to be able to explain how some of what he said actually may unnecessarily harm those he intends to support.” 

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The Foundation for Reconciliation was established to foster a climate for reconciliation between the LDS church and the LGBT community. In addition to education, and charitable programs the organization has begun a petition that will be delivered to the Mormon Church’s First Presidency on the first anniversary of the passage of Prop. 8, November 4th, 2009. It calls for forgiveness on all sides, recognition of responsibility, and a beginning to the healing. For more information please visit http://www.ldsapology.org.

Resources:

APA Resolution

http://www.apa.org/releases/therapeutic.html

Elder Bruce C. Hafen’s Talk

http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/public-issues/elder-bruce-c-hafen-speaks-on-same-sex-attraction

 

 

 

   

 

 

Please take time to read this petition, as well as read the stories and links provided, and pass this information on to your friends and link to us if you have a website or blog.

By doing so, you will be sending a message to the leaders of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints that it is time for reconciliation between the Church and its gay and lesbian members. More importantly, you will be showing support for those who have been hurt by Church policies and practices because of their sexual orientation.

"Gay, lesbian and bisexual teens and young adults have one of the highest rates of suicide attempts — and some other health and mental health problems, including substance abuse. A new study suggests that parental acceptance, and even neutrality, with regard to a child's sexual orientation could have a big impact in reducing this rate."-NPR, All Things Considered, December 29, 2008

"I implore the students at BYU to re-assess their homophobic feelings," wrote Stuart Matis in The Daily Universe shortly before committing suicide. "Seek to understand first before you make comments. We have the same needs as you. We desire to love and be loved. We desire to live our lives with happiness. We are not a threat to you or your families."

"Utah’s overall suicide rate is the 10th highest in the nation. Unfortunately, it is the leading cause of death for Utah males ages 15 to 19, who die at a rate nearly double the national average. It is the leading cause of death for adolescent males in Utah."-KUED.org Voices of Hope Discussion Guide

"Thank you, Carol Lynn Pearson, for reminding us that the task of any religion is to teach us whom we're required to love, not whom we're entitled to hate." - Rabbi Harold Kushner

 

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